Sometimes you can’t leave yet. Before You Can Leave is part practical survival guide, part manifesto for teens and adults who are still dependent on toxic, controlling, abusive, or dysfunctional family members. Dependency does not require psychological surrender. These essays are about surviving the in between realizing something is wrong and having the freedom to leave. Learn how to protect your sense of self, recognize manipulation, build practical life skills, prepare for independence, and quietly work toward a life of your own. You can still start preparing for the day you can.